Cultivating Physical and Spiritual Intimacy in Marriage
Marriage is a sacred relationship we can experience, yet it often takes a backseat to the demands of life. Between work responsibilities, raising children and maintaining friendships, both physical and spiritual intimacy can be neglected. However, intimacy is the glue that strengthens a marriage and reinforces commitment between spouses.
Why Intimacy Matters
Intimacy isn’t just for the bedroom. It involves emotional, spiritual and physical connection. A thriving marriage is built on vulnerability, trust and the ability to share our deepest thoughts and feelings with our spouse. Without these, distance grows which can lead to misunderstandings, frustrations and conflict.
Spiritual intimacy in particular strengthens the foundation of a marriage. Praying together and encouraging one another in spiritual growth create a bond that withstands the challenges of life. When both husband and wife are aligned spiritually, emotional and physical intimacy naturally follow.
How Life Can Hinder Intimacy
The constant push and pull of obligations leave little room for intentional connection. Balancing work, family and friends can be exhausting. By the end of the day, many couples are too drained to engage in meaningful conversation, much less physical intimacy.
Setting Realistic Expectations Inside and Outside the Bedroom
Intimacy doesn’t have to be grand or perfectly planned. Setting realistic expectations means recognizing that seasons of life bring changes, and connection requires intentionality.
Prioritize small moments - a quick hug, loving text or 10 minutes of interrupted conversation can make a big difference
Embrace flexibility - some days exhaustion wins. Instead of being discouraged, focus on consistency in small ways.
Understand that intimacy is more than physical - if intimacy outside the bedroom is lacking, it will be harder to engage inside the bedroom.
Reignite Intimacy in Your Marriage
Marriage is a lifelong journey and requires grace, commitment and effort. By making small, intentional choices each day, couples can create a connection that withstands life’s challenges. No matter what season you’re in - newlywed or empty nester - it’s never too late to invest in intimacy.
If this topic resonates with you, we invite you to join us at our Spring Soiree at CharleyMadelyn where we’ll dive even deeper into the conversation. Allison Cain and Melissa Bell, hosts of The Sinner & The Saint Podcast, will lead a discussion on physical and spiritual intimacy in marriage. Expect to laugh, relate and gain biblical wisdom that will help strengthen your relationship.
Your ticket includes delicious snacks, a glass of wine, an exclusive CharleyMadelyn shopping discount, and a fun-filled swag bag. This is a great opportunity to connect with like-minded women and invest in your marriage in a meaningful way.
Details
Tickets: $30
Date: Thursday, April 10
Time: Doors open at 6; discussion begins at 6:30
Location: CharleyMadelyn
Kesa Ennen is an accomplished executive assistant at Prep Communications where she excels in providing high-level administrative support and streamlining operations. Kesa joined Prep after work in health care settings and serving in executive support roles with Allobee, The Riveter, and designer Rebecca Minkoff. Kesa holds a BBA from Stephen F. Austin State University and an MBA from LeTourneau University. She and her husband are raising three kids in the Lone Star State, and she holds the title as Prep’s first hire outside of North Carolina.
